老人和子女生活经典语录
都有义务赡养
老人过多掺和子女生活
个人认为父母既是儿子儿媳的父母，也是女儿女婿的父母。现在人都说，养儿方知报娘恩。在中国的传统文化里认为，养儿防老，所以好像养父母都是儿子的责任。但当今的形式不同了，难道父母在女儿身上花的心血、人力、财力就一定比儿子少吗？现在人都说，女儿是家养的，儿子是野养的，就是富女穷儿。从这些浮浅的道路上来说，女儿也要赡养父母的。养父母，是为人子女最基本的孝道，至于子女应该出多少力，要看其相应的能力和孝心。孝顺不是说的，而是做出来。身教重于言教，假如你自己不对你的父母孝顺，那小心你老的时候，你的子女也会不管你的死活。就是其他子女不赡养，小儿子也还是尽自己的能力吧！想想我们小时候，那么小，母亲十月怀胎把我们好不容易生下来，一口一口饭把我们养大。给我们上学，给我们生存的希望和尊严，给了我们的一切。。。想想这些，你就不会计较了。孝顺父母，不是做生意，他是我们的人性，我们最柔软的内心！
老人干预子女生活
赡养父母是每个子女应尽的义务和责任，有钱出钱，有力出力，小儿子出了力，其他子女就应出钱。遇上不孝顺的子女，也只能通过法庭来裁判了。
老人不要过多过问子女的事
“可以捉到一千磅的大鱼”
当他的大鱼被鲨鱼吃得仅剩下一副骨骼时，他自问：“可是，是什么把你打败的呢？”“什么也不是……是我走得太远啦。”老人勇敢地承认了自己的失败，却又绝对相信自我的力量。相信他纵然是失败依然勇敢无比，相信在精神上并没有败给鲨鱼，因为被消灭的是鲨鱼，而不是自己，正是基于对待失败的勇敢、毫不气馁的精神，桑提亚哥体会到：“一旦给打败，事情也就容易办了”。
“现在只要把船尽可能好好地、灵巧地开往自己的港口去。”
“上面是一面千窗百孔的帆，上面先后补上了一些面粉袋，如一面标志着被打败的旗帜，”
“这算什么，男子汉就得这样。”
“去他妈的什么运气，我要运气跟我走。”
。“海洋是仁慈的，十分美丽的，”最终给予了老人一条“比小船还长两英尺”的大马林鱼。
“什么是一个人能够办得到的”，“这一个总要去杀死那一个”，
“他扛着桅杆坐在那儿”，还有他睡觉的姿势，“两条胳膊直直地伸在外面，两只手心朝上，就这样瞅着了。”
人面对的两难结局,有人说他没打到鱼虽然是一副骨架却卖不了钱;有人说他打到鱼了虽然是一副骨架......
当然．最经典的好象还是公认的”梦见了狮子
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The Old Man and the Sea is the most classic and concernful novel of Hemmingway's. Its compendious expression and exciting fighting narrative attracts numerous readers. The author repeatedly emphasized his customary key thoughts in the story: despairing courage, struggling on both physically and psychologically, and the hero's brave, glory and noble character.
One of the pivotal sentences, "a man can be destroyed but not defeated" draws our attention. This sentence is gorgeous in surface but a little doubtful in a certain angle. In the end of the story the old man told to the boy that he was a loser who beaten by the sharks. With his bloody hands and the skeleton of the fish, it was really difficult to judge that he was defeated or not. However, he was undoubtedly destroyed in the fighting at the hopeless sea. Therefore, the difference between "destroy" and "defeated" was just something untraceable. We are not expected to tell one word form another, but to feel the antinomy and contact of them.
This sentence from the old man was also a reflection of the author himself. Sometimes we may treat a novel as some individual and emotional words. The old man and the sea were the symbols of the author and his life and destiny. As we know, Hemingway suffered a lot from his broken life during two ruthless world wars. In his late years, he was a successful litterateur but also a disable old man. He ended up his life with suicide. It's too arbitrary to say he was defeated from his fate, and also too shallow to use the word "destroy" in his experiences.
In my opinion, the most splendid thing in Hemmingway and his the Old Man and the Sea is not the VICTORY OF DEFEAT, but the relationship between the two words "defeat" and "destroy" as well as the novel and the author.
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I have read the American well-known Hemingway’s book ‘’ the old man and the sea’’, which came out in 1976. This is a true story about an old fisherman battling with a giant marlin in the sea.
The old fisherman, who names Santiago, have not caught any fish for 84 days , other fishermen looks down him as a loser, but he never gives up. Finally 85th days, he fishes a big marlin fish which is bigger than his skiff and over fifteen hundred pounds. The fish begins to tow him farther and farther out to the sea, but he still holds onto the line, even though a hand is cramping, he don’t give up it. After two days and two nights’ crucifixion, at the end he kills the fish, and attaches the marlin to the outside of the skiff with rope, it’s blood leaves a trail in the water and attracts sharks in return journey, he comes to strike back against and uses to all tools which are harpoon, knife, and quant . When Santiago returns to harbor is left over with the fish head fishtail and one backbone. Although the flesh of fish has been got rid of all quilt barking, what also has no way to devastate his brave will. When he lay down on the bed at home, he makes a usual dream of lions at play on the beaches of Africa.
This story happened in 1940th near a Gulf Stream in Cuba. The main character Santiago is an old man, who fishes alone in a skiff in the Gulf Stream and lives a small village. He is characterized as someone struggling against defeat. The second character Manolin is a young boy whom Santiago teaches to fish. The litter boy is his loyal friend. Language is great simplicity and power. The theme of courage in the face of defeat, of personal triumph won from loss. It is a song of praise of heroism.
The Author, Ernest Miller Hemingway is a famous writer in the literary world. ‘’The old man and the sea’’ was written in 1952, and it is one of Hemingway’s most enduring works .It won the 1954 Nobel Prize for Literature. The author wants to told readers ,you will be supposed to like this old person same mind lofty aspiration, and will even better pursue even better, the bigger goal, don’t easy give up your goal in your life.
The novel shows a view about struggle of life, even in the face of nature can’t be conquered, but still can be moral victory. Perhaps the result of a failure, but I n the struggle of process, the reader can see how a person become an indomitable spirit of man. I like the main character Santiago and the classic saying ‘’But man is not made for defeat. A man can be destroyed but not defeated’’, because this is Santiago’s faith of life, and the human will not fail also, the enterprise spirit of a carols. It is encouraging me to face up to life with smiles no matter what happens. It's a simple story, but offers the reader much to think about without lapsing into the didactic. I am strongly recommend that book.
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THE OLD MAN AND THE SEA
Ernest Hemingway
New York: Charles Scribner�s Sons, 1952
127 pages.
Comments by Bob Corbett
January 2006
Once again I return to the work of Ernest Hemingway after an almost 50 year hiatus. The Old Man and the Sea is a magnificent story. At one level it is the tale of a man and a fish, at another, a story of man versus nature, at yet another, the story of the culture of manhood, courage, bravery in the face of existence, and at yet another a history of what life was like when individuals were more the central actors on the human stage and not groups or organizations.
At the most basic level the very elderly fisherman, Santiago, goes out in his small fishing boat after 84 days without hooking a decent fish. He goes far out, and hooks a gigantic 18 foot long sword fish. The battle then begins, and the fish drags the small boat and Santiago far out to sea. For two days they battle, and Santiago wins that battle, but then loses the great fish on the way home to the scavenger sharks who find him easy prey.
Hemingway celebrates the courage and raw guts of this old man, even recounting a time in Casablanca when he had spent an entire day in an arm wrestling match with a much larger man in a seaside tavern. Hemingway celebrates a concept of humans as beings who go it alone, fierce, brave, courageous without even thinking about it, oozing strength from the nature of the best of the species.
The story is told with incredible economy of words and description, yet nothing is sacrificed which drives home the power and inner strength of this man, who just takes it as what he does, what it is to be a serious fisherman.
Hemingway�s world is not my world. I am no Santiago, no macho man. And the culture of today has little place left for the radical individual whom Hemingway celebrates and Santiago portrays. Yet the power of Hemingway�s telling is such that I couldn�t help but be on Santiago�s side, to admire him, to ache with his loss in the end to forces greater than he.
There is a side tale as well. This great individual, the man who stands alone, is not alone completely by choice. He has developed a friendship, a working relationship, a love with a young boy who began fishing with him when the boy was only five. Now the boy has moved on to another boat, a more successful one, at his parents� behest, but he pines to work with Santiago, and when the battle with the great fish has been engaged, Santiago pleads over and over and over: �I wish the boy were here.�
Like many readers who might come upon this novel today, I live a life of citified ease and comfort. A life far removed from harsh confrontations with nature. But Hemingway forces me to remember and acknowledge the individual, the struggle for the most basic existence, the battle with nature for survival itself. But most importantly he makes one acknowledge the importance of the individual and the magnificence of courage, skill, art and endurance.
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The Old Man and the Sea
Simon & Schuster
The Old Man and the Sea was an enormous success for Ernest Hemingway when it was published in 1952. At first glance, the story appears to be an extremely simple story of an old Cuban fisherman (Santiago), who catches an enormously large fish then loses it again. But, there's much more to the story than that...
The Old Man and the Sea helped to revive Hemingway's reputation as a writer of great acclaim. This slim volume also contributed enormously to Hemingway's recognition as a world-renowned writer--with the award of the Nobel Prize for literature. The popular reception of the novel comes from its part-parable, part-eulogy style--recollecting a by-gone age in this spiritual quest for discovery. Touching and powerful in turns, the story is told in Hemingway's simple, brittle style. The book reaches out to a very human need--for stability and certainty.
Overview: The Old Man and the Sea
Santiago is an old man, and many are starting to think that he can no longer fish. He has gone for many months without landing any kind of fish to speak of; and his apprentice, a young man named Manolin, has gone to work for a more prosperous boat. The fisherman sets out into the open sea and goes a little further out than he normally would in his desperation to catch a fish. At noon, a big Marlin takes hold of one of the lines, but the fish is far too big for him to handle.
Hemingway pays great attention to the skill and dexterity that Santiago uses in coping with the fish. Santiago lets the fish have enough line, so that it won't break his pole; but he and his boat are dragged out to sea for three days. Finally, the fish--an enormous and worthy opponent--grows tired; and Santiago kills it. Even this final victory does not end the Santiago's journey; he is a still far, far out to sea. To make matters worse, Santiago drags the Marlin behind the boat (and the blood from the dead fish attracts sharks).
Santiago does his best to beat the sharks away, but his efforts are not enough. The sharks eat the flesh off the Marlin, and Santiago is left with only the bones. Santiago gets back to shore--weary and tired--with nothing to show for his pains but the skeletal remains of a large Marlin. Even with just the bare remains of the fish, the experience has changed him, and altered the perception others have of him. Manolin wakes him the morning after his return and suggests that they once more fish together.
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I was very surprised when I finally tried to read this, and discovered that it bored the living crap out of me. I just couldn't get into it, I don't know why, maybe it was just my mood or something....? I mean, I do like Hemingway. I love the sea, and baseball. I am relatively fond of both old men and little boys (not like that, you fool).... and this is supposed to be really terrific and all, but I just.... I mean, I could've finished it of course, it's short, and it wouldn't have been like torture at all, but I just wasn't feeling it.... so I stopped.
Sometimes I think about making an "okay-so-does-this-mean-i'm-stupid-or-something?" shelf, but my ideological opposition to the idea has overridden that impulse every time.... so far.
必须养，这不仅是道德问题，还是法律义务。老人折腾子女。
1.It is what a man must do. 这是一个男子汉所应该做的。
2.I would rather be exact. Then when luck comes you are ready.
3.All my life the early sun has hurt my eyes, he thought. Yet they are still good. 生命中的旭阳刺痛了我的眼睛，他想。（据本人理解应为指早年初恋女友，那个护士的背叛）呵呵，还好这双眼睛现在还挺好。
4.My big fish must be somewhere. 一定有属於我的大鱼在什麽地方等著。
5.The water was a dark blue now, so dark that it was almost purple. 如今的海水是深蓝色的，深到几乎成了紫色。
6.Most people are heartless about turtles because a turtle’s heart will beat for hours after he has been cut up and butchered. But the old man thought, I have such a heart too and my feet and hands are like theirs. 大多数人对待（海龟、甲鱼之类的动物吧）很冷酷无情，因为海龟的心会在它身体被剖开和屠杀时，被时光打败。（此句照应“A man can be destroyed but not defeated ” “一个人可以被毁灭但是不能被打倒！”）
7.Now is no time to think of baseball, he thought. Now is the time to think of only one thing. That which I was born for. 现在没有时间考虑棒球了，他想。此刻是只能思考一件事情的时候。那是，我生来是为了什麽。
8.It was considered a virtue not to talk unnecessarily at sea and the old man had always considered it so and respected it. But now he said his thoughts aloud many times since there was no one that they could annoy. 可以想象品德在海里就不必要说起了，而老人以前却总是思考著，尊敬著它。可是现在，自从没有了一个可能打搅的人，他就把那些想法高声的说出来，好多次。
9.The tuna, the fishermen called all the fish of that species tuna and only distinguished among them by their proper names when they came to sell them or to trade them for bait, were down again.
（金枪鱼，渔人在售卖它们或者交易他们用作诱饵时，……）
10.He felt no strain nor weight and he held the line lightly. Then it came again. This time it was a tentative pull, not-solid nor heavy, and he knew exactly what it was. 他感觉没有什麽拉力和重量，而轻轻的抓住鱼线。之后它（指大鱼）又来了。这次它仅仅拉了一会儿，不沉也不重，而他已经清楚的知道那是什麽鱼了.
11.If you said a good thing, it might not happen. 如果你说出了一件好的事情，那么那件好事可能就会不出现了。（大概可以理解为“天机不可泄露”）
12.What I will do if he decides to go down, I don’t know. What I’ll do if he sounds and dies I don’t know. But I ‘ll do something. There are plenty of things I can do. 我不知道，如果他下来或者如果他倒地一声死了，我要怎么办。但是我知道，我会做一些事情。还有很多东西我可以做。
13.Then he looked behind him and saw that no land was visible. That makes no difference, he thought. 然后他望向背后，却发现，没有一块可以看见的陆地。他想，海洋没有制造什麽差异，跟之前没有什麽区别。
14.The position actually was only somewhat less intolerable; but he thought of it as almost comfortable. 实际上的方位只能稍微带给人少许无法忍受的感觉，但他几乎想象这是一件舒适的事情。
15.Then he thought, think of it always. Think of what you are doing. You must do nothing stupid.
Then he said aloud, “I wish I had the boy. To help me and to see this.” 之后他总是想著，思考著这件事。思考你在干什麽。你不能做任何愚蠢的事情。然后他大声的说：“我希望身边有个男孩，可以帮助我，还有可以看到这。”
16.What a great fish he is and what he will bring in the market if the flesh is good. He took the bait like a male and he pulls like a male and his fight has no panic in it. I wonder if he has any plans or if he is just as desperate as I am? 这是一个多么庞大的鱼，如果到时候还新鲜的话，他就拿到市场卖了。他像一个男子汉那样，拿著诱饵还有拉著线，无畏的搏斗著。我想知道，他是否有任何的安排，或者，他只是像我一样，绝望了。
17.He was beautiful, the old man remembered, and he had stayed. 他很美丽，老人回忆著，还有他以前曾经逗留过。
18.Perhaps I should not have been a fisherman, he thought. But that was the thing that I was born for. 或许我不应该成为一个渔夫，他想。但是那是我生来的源由。
19.“ Fish,” he said softly, aloud, “ I ‘ll stay with you until I am dead.” “鱼，”他柔和地说著，却很响亮 ，“我会一直陪伴你直至我死去。”
20.He could feel the steady hard pull of the line and his left hand was cramped. It drew up tight on the heavy cord and he looked at it in disgust.
“What kind of a hand is that,” he said. “Cramp then if you want. Make yourself into a claw. It will do you no good.” 他能感觉到支架艰难的拉著，但是他的左手却被夹住了。它被沉重的绳索卷住了，老人嫌恶的看著左手。
21.There is no sense in being anything but practical though, he thought. 著没有了任何知觉……
22.I wish I could feed the fish, he thought. He is my brother. But I must kill him and keep strong to do it. Slowly and conscientiously he ate all of the wedge-shaped strips of fish. 我希望可以饲养这些鱼儿，他想著。他是我的兄弟。但是我必须杀掉他，还有保证强壮的身体来处理它。凭良心，他慢慢的吃掉了所有楔形的细长的鱼。
23.He looked across the sea and knew how alone he was now. But he could see the prisms in the deep dark water and the line stretching ahead and the strange undulation of the calm. The clouds were building up now for the trade wind and he looked ahead and saw a flight of wild ducks etching themselves against the sky over the water, the blurring, then etching again and he knew no man was ever alone on the sea. 他眺望着海面，知道他此刻是多么孤单。但是他可以看见在黑暗的深水里的棱镜和鱼线往前和那平静的波动。云朵现在贸易风，他朝前望去，看到一个飞行的野鸭在水面上的天空，模糊，然后蚀刻再次和他知道没有人是独自在海上。
24.I hate a cramp, he thought. It is a treachery of one’s own body. It is humiliating before others to have a diarrhoea from ptomaine poisoning or to vomit from. But a cramp, he thought of it as a calambre, humiliates oneself especially when one is alone. 我恨抽筋，他想。这是对自己身体的背叛行为。它是在别人面前丢脸由于食物中毒而腹泻或者呕吐。但是抽筋，他认为这是一个calambre侮辱自己，尤其是当一个人是孤单的。
25.If I were him I would put in everything now and go until something broke. But, thank God, they are not as intelligent as we who kill them; although they are more noble and more able. 如果我是他，我会竭尽所能去直到事情发生。但是，感谢上帝，他们是不是我们谁杀了他们的智能；虽然他们更高贵、更能。
26.I wonder why he jumped, the old man thought. He jumped almost as though to show me how big he was. I know now, anyway, he thought. I wish I could show him what sort of man I am. But then he would see the cramped hand. Let him think I am more man than I am and I will be so. I wish I was the fish, he thought, with everything he has against only my will and my intelligence.
我想知道为什么他跳了，老人想。他就好像让我看看他有多大。现在我知道，无论如何，他认为。我希望我也能让他看看我是什么样的人。然后他会看到这只抽筋的手。让他觉得我比我的人，我会这样。我希望我的鱼，他认为，他所做的一切对我的意志和我的智慧。
27.He was comfortable but suffering, although he did not admit the suffering at all. 他是舒适而痛苦，虽然他根本不承认是痛苦。
28.He commenced to say his prayers mechanically. Sometimes he would be so tired that he could not remember the prayer and then he would say them fast so that they would come automatically. 他机械地念起祈祷文。有时他会很累很累，他不记得祈祷，然后他会说他们很快，它们会自动。
29.I must save all my strength now. Christ, I did not know he was so big.
“I ‘ll kill him though,” he said. “ In all his greatness and his glory.
我眼下必须保存所有的精力。基督，我不知道他是如此之大。
“我会杀了他，”他说。“在他的伟大和荣耀。
30.Although it is unjust, he thought. But I will show him what a man can do and what a man endures. 然而这是不公平的，他想。但我会告诉他，什么可以做，什么人忍受。
31.The thousand times that he had proved it meant nothing. Now he was proving it again. Each time was a new time and he never thought about the past when he was doing it. 他证明了一千次这不意味着什么。现在他再次证明这。每一次都是一个新的时间，他从来没有想过去当他做了它。
32.Still I would rather be that beast down there in the darkness of the sea. 我还是情愿做那只待在黑暗的大海。
33.He did not truly feel good because the pain from the cord across his back had almost passed pain and gone into a dullness that he mistrusted. But I have had worse things than that, he thought. 他并不真的觉得好因为索勒在背上的疼痛几乎已经疼进入了一种使他不信任。但我有比这更糟糕的事情，他认为。
34.“The fish is my friend too,” he said aloud. “ I have never seen or heard of such a fish. But I must kill him. I am glad we do not have to try to kill the stars.” “这鱼是我的朋友，”他大声地说。“我从来没有见过或听说过这样的鱼。但我必须杀了他。我很高兴，我们不必去捕杀星星。”
35.Then he was sorry for the great fish that had nothing to eat and his determination to kill him never relaxed in his sorrow for him. How many people will he feed, he thought. But are they worthy to eat him? No, of course not. There is no one worthy of eating him from the manner of his behaviour and his great diginity. 然后他很同情那条大鱼，没有东西吃，他决心要杀死他从未放松他为他而悲伤。它能供多少人吃，他想。但他们配吃它吗？不，当然不是。没有人吃他从他的行为和他的伟大的尊严态度值得。
I do not understand these things, he thought. But it is good that we do not have to try to kill the sun or the moon or the stars. It is enough to live on the sea and kill our true brothers. 我不懂这些事，他认为。但它是好的，我们不必去弄死太阳或月亮或星星。它是足够的以海为生，杀死我们的真正的兄弟。
36. I’m clear enough in the head, he thought. Too clear. I am as clear as the stars that are my brothers. Still I must sleep. 我的头脑还足够能清醒，他想。我太清醒了，清晰到就像群星是我的兄弟。所以我仍然必须睡觉。
37. “ It is not bad,” he said. “ And pain does not matter to a man.” “那还不错，”他说，“并且，疼痛、伤痕对一个人来说不应该让其成为问题。”
38. Now I must convince him and then I must kill him. 此刻我必须使他信服，然后我定杀了他。
39. I must hold his pain where it is, he thought. Mine does not matter. I can control mine. But his pain could drive him mad. 我一定要把握住他伤口所在之处，他想。我的伤口不是问题，我可以控制住自己，但是他的伤口会让他发怒，失去理智。
40. Keep your head clear and know how to suffer like a man. 保持你头脑的清醒，并且懂得如何像一个男子汉那样承受痛苦。
41. Then the fish came alive, with his death in him, and rose high out of the water showing all his great length and width and all his power and his beauty. 然后鱼活了过来，他的死他，高高地冲出水面，展现出其巨大的长度和宽度，和他所有的力量和他的美。
只有这么多了
老人过多干涉子女生活。
朋友赡养老人是每个子女的法定义务。与老人同住的子女。
只要是子女都有赡养父母的义务和责任。老人和子女生活经典语录 。
老人过多掺和子女生活。
赡养老人是每个儿女的义务，与老人和谁在一起，有几个子女有什么关系，每个人都应该进到赡养义务那纯属扯淡，是他不想尽义务的托词在法律上根本站不住脚，这种人不孝顺，还要找个托词，太不要脸了这样的话，母亲可以跟小儿子一起住，但是他们必须要出赡养费用和医药费，如果协商不成，其实你上边也说了，跟他们协商不了，就以老人的名义向当地的法院提起诉讼。让法院强制他们进到赡养义务，这个去法院起诉，肯定赢的老人干预子女生活。
一 *有些事，尽力不成，无奈，只好走开；有些人，苦等不来，无缘，只好离开；有些情，苦恋不明，无果，只好割舍。处不住的，只能遗弃；盼不来的，只能放弃；留不住的，只能终止。人生，就是这样，选择不易，放弃艰难。人生之苦，苦在选择，人生之难，难在放弃。人生，说到底，就是选择与放弃。
二 *做人可以不聪 明，但一定要有分寸感。每个人都要找到自己的位置，应该是你的，才是你的；不该是你的，连搭腔都不要。宁可藏拙，也不要露怯。话说得越多，反而会显得自己越浅薄。所以，人要实，话要藏，用做事的结果来征服人，而不是说服人。
三 * 曾经发脾气，三天三夜哄不好。如今生个气，转眼就觉没必要。时间让人慢慢长成了好脾气，所以，看一个人成熟的程度，要看他平息怒火需要多长时间。
四 * 给自己一份好心情，让世界对着你微笑：给别人一份好心情，让生活对我们微笑，好心情是人生的财富，让好心情与我们时时相伴。生命太短暂，不够来遗憾。不一样的你我，不一样的心态，不一样的人生。不要因为停留在不开心的过去，而去错过了本该属于自己的美好的明天。
五 * 别总听悲伤的歌，别总想从前的事，别让过去拖住脚，别让未来被辜负。
六 * 每个人都有潜在的能 量，只是很容易被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷 离，被惰性所消磨。
七 * 你现在的所作所为将会变成你往后的回忆与谈资。
八 * 胖不是罪，只是上 帝嫉妒你瘦下去会太完 美。
九 * 人应该要为梦想追逐，不管现实给了你多少黑 眼圈。勇敢地追求自己的梦想吧！每一天都是新的开始！
十 * 生活原本就不是乞讨，所以无论日子过得多么窘迫，都要从容地走下去，不辜负一世韶光。
十一 * 失 眠的人无非两种，一是手里拿着手机，二是脑子里有个剧场。
十二 * 是是非非，你没必要在意那些贱 人的看法，他们有嘴，不一定有脑。
十三 * 我惯着你的时候你可以是块宝，我不要你的时候你连地上的一棵草都不如。
十四 * 我们从自然手上收到的最 大礼物就是生命。
十五 * 每天都给自己一个小目标，365天后，你会看见自己的成长。
十六 * 你现在正在享受的、正在体会的，才是你真 正拥有的。你名义上的财富地位乃至感情再多，如果不能真实体会和品味，也等同于没有。所以，珍惜遇到的每一个善缘，真实地体会她：一缕清风，一个微笑，一只飞过眼前的小鸟，一间整洁的旅馆的房间，一丝若有若无的花香。
十七 * 你走不进那个人的心里，不一定是你不够努力，而是那个人也不断在加固心里的那堵墙。
十八 * 生活中的失败者，无非因为做了两件事：用自己的嘴干扰别人的生活，靠别人的脑子思考自己的人生。
十九 * 也许现在的你很累，但未来的路还很长，不要忘了当初为何而出发，是什么让你坚持到现在，勿忘初心，方得始终。
二十 * 与其跟一帮自己想想都恶心的人或者事吵来吵去，折腾来折腾去，还不如通过努力来让那些恶心的人和事没有资格和机会出现在自己的世界。
可以通过诉讼争取应有的权益
其他子女都要赡养。。。
只要是老人的子女就有赡养老人的义务责任