做人做事说说
If you want to do things well, do not worry about the other people; if you want to worry about the other people, do not undertake work assignments .
1.少说自己的事，除非别人问。2.别说评价对方的话，无论好坏。3.别说评价第三方的话，没有不透风的墙。4.持有不同见解的话，注意语气。5.别乱开别人玩笑，注意场合。6.别人说你不爱听的，转移话题。7.人之患…在于爱管闲事。
If you want to do things well, do not worry about the others; if you want to worry about the others, do not undertake work assignments .